Week of May 8th, 2012

Jewish Tips on Hoarding: Give It Away, Give It Away, Give It Away Now

Week of May 8th, 2012
08 May 2012 at 4:39pm

"When you come to the land which I give to you and shall reap its harvest, then you shall bring an omer of the first fruits of your harvest to the priest: and he shall wave the omer before the Eternal, to be accepted for you.”

~Leviticus 22:9-10

As soon as we enter the land and have a good harvest, we are commanded, not to collect as much as we can and hide it for later, but rather to bring a measure to the high priest of our first fruits. Contrary to inclination, we give away something that we own, something that we value. We acknowledge that there is a Source of All, however we imagine it, (knowing that none of our imaginations are up to the task). We affirm that we did not make the land with our own hands, nor the seeds we sow, nor the fruits we gather and glean.

Such an exercise as giving away the first fruits prior even to tasting them oneself requires such detachment and respect and is easier for some and very difficult for others. When giving away excess becomes impossible, today we designate it as ‘hoarding.’ While fruits can rot and people can wither, what in the end can we hold onto that feels real and forever? Things.One reason people do the opposite of the first fruits, why people hoard is that, while people are sadly temporal, ‘things’ don’t die. As a way of holding onto memories especially when the loved one has passed, people tend to hoard. In some cases, the excessive inability to release objects becomes a serious problem including both the physicality of unsafe clutter as well as psychological impediment.

Additionally, people hold onto things forfear of letting something go. There is a fear that you might want the item back at a later time or the feeling of needing that item – so just keeping it is theeasiestthing sometimes.

Judaism sets in place spiritual strategies to help offset this human condition of hanging onto ‘things.’ The strategy to help us is so important that the word for giving charity is Tzedakkah, a word linked linguistically to tze-dek, righteousness. While it is understood that holding onto things might bring comfort, the overriding Jewish teaching is to sustain memory of loved ones through giving. In addition, giving to others is so helpful, that according to teaching from the High Holiday literature, it, along with prayer and repentance, has the ability to offset the sickness of soul. Here are a few examples from our tradition on "anti-hoarding.”

  1. When we plant, we are commanded to leave the corners un-harvested, so that a person in need could collect food and survive.
  2. The Torah also calls upon us to give ten percent of our income to charity through tithing. Leviticus 27:30 "And all the tithe (from the word for tenth) of the land, whether of the seed of the land, or of the fruit of the tree, is the Eternal’s; it is holy unto the Eternal."
  3. It is customary, before lighting Shabbat Candles, to put money into a tzedakkah box. This money is for the purpose of tikkun olam, the repair of the world.

Certain kinds of tzedakah are considered more meritorious than others. The Talmud describes these different levels of tzedakah, and Rambam organized them into a list. The levels of charity, from the least meritorious to the most meritorious, are:

  1. Giving begrudgingly
  2. Giving less that you should, but giving it cheerfully
  3. Giving after being asked
  4. Giving before being asked
  5. Giving when you do not know the recipient's identity, but the recipient knows your identity
  6. Giving when you know the recipient's identity, but the recipient doesn't know your identity
  7. Giving when neither party knows the other's identity
  8. Enabling the recipient to become self-reliant

The only way to feel wealthy is by giving some away. May we all feel like we have enough to give something away, and may we find the ways we give add length to our days, making them richer and more fulfilling. Give it away, now – your smile, your kindness, your companionship – and get back far more than you could ever imagine.

Shalom,



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